Queer Story Time The Podcast

In this episode of Queer Story Time, Stevie is joined by podcast hosts Robin and Chris for a heartfelt exploration of coming out as queer later in life. They delve into the transformative power of self-acceptance and discuss the significance of individual connections and compassionate conversations, particularly with those who may struggle to understand queer and trans issues.Robin came out at 54 and has since dedicated her work to supporting others in similar situations. Her podcast, COMING OUT LATE, is among the top 1.5% globally, and her private Facebook group boasts over 5,300 members. Robin also runs three weekly support groups, offers 1-on-1 coaching, facilitates in-person retreats, and is preparing to write a guidebook on coming out late for lesbians.Chris is a 500-hour certified Yoga Teacher and is soon set to become a Certified Yoga Therapist. With a deep commitment to Yoga and recovery, Chris shares their knowledge and tools from Yoga, Ayurveda, and recovery to aid others on their healing journeys.Tune in for a powerful conversation on embracing oneself, building connections, and fostering understanding within our communities.Key Topics Discussed:Personal Growth and Sobriety: Chris and Robin delve into their recovery journeys, focusing on emotional sobriety and the importance of self-reflection, acceptance, and turning over their will to a higher power.Creating Understanding: Chris shares a recent experience helping a woman understand her niece's pronoun change, highlighting the impact of compassionate, one-on-one conversations.Grounding and Centering: The importance of being grounded and centered in oneself to navigate challenging conversations.Coming Out Later in Life: Conversations on how coming out later can be transformative and the importance of supportive spaces and allies. They share their experiences and insights on navigating this process with others who are in similar situations.Grief and Loss: Chris and Robin discuss their personal experiences with grief and loss, including how these experiences have shaped their journey and their work in supporting others.Support for Queer and Trans Youth: Tips for queer and trans youth on finding trusted allies and building support systems.Global Connections: The role of technology in creating safe spaces for queer and trans individuals globally.Future Plans: Upcoming retreats, pop-up events, and collaborations to support the queer community.Upcoming Events with Chris and Robin:Retreats: Portland, Michigan, and Provincetown.Support Groups: Messy Middle Monday, Gender Expansive Support Group, and Not Straight Support Group.Connect with Chris and Robin:Robin: [email protected]: [email protected] Remarks: Sincere gratitude to Chris and Robin for sharing their wisdom and experiences. Stay healthy, vibrant, queer, and well. Join us next time for more inspiring conversations and a special announcement.Announcements:Tune in for episode 15 which may occur later than mid-August due to Stevie’s medical school schedule. However, stay tuned for an exciting announcement coming up in episode 15.Queer Story Time Community Facebook Group: Now live and free to join! Connect with our vibrant community here: Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/JCiyGgCnpX7gPbfU/?mibextid=K35XfQueer Story Time Email List: Stay updated with QST episodes, news, events, and future opportunities Email List: http://eepurl.com/iSc-HQLeave A Star Rating, Written Review, & Follow QST:I encourage QST listeners to leave a star rating, and a written review on the podcast platform of your choice and to share the podcast with friends and family! This helps QST expand to an even bigger audience globally.Be sure to follow your host Stevie on Instagram @queertransthriving and the QST YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsV_UVohIXCZkSXExp8aYkA  Support QST & Buy Me A Coffee:If you’d like to support Stevis as your QST host, please consider buying me a coffee at this link and check-out my additional offerings: https://buymeacoffee.com/queertransthriving  Get In-Touch with Stevie via E-Mail: [email protected]: Stevie Inghram, M.S., YT, AWC, NMS-4 (they/them or she/her)Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/queer-story-time-the-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Queer Story Time, host Stevie interviews Ben Greene (he/him), an international public speaker, transgender man, and author of the book "My Child is Trans, Now What?". As a passionate advocate for transgender youth, Ben strives to meet everyone with compassion, regardless of their starting point. Join us as Ben shares insights on the importance of unconditional parental support, the impact of societal expectations, and his ongoing advocacy work.Key Points:Parental Support: Ben emphasizes that children exploring their gender identity need unconditional love and support from their parents. Delaying support can lead to feelings of isolation and a desire to leave home as soon as possible.Exploration: Allowing children to explore their gender identity without judgment is crucial. Exploration is a natural part of childhood and should not be restricted by rigid gender norms.Gender Expectations: Parents often impose their own gender expectations on their children. Letting go of these expectations benefits all children, helping them develop into emotionally intelligent and confident adults.Misconceptions: Ben discusses his own fears and misconceptions about hormone therapy, noting that societal narratives often distort the realities of transitioning.Identity: It's important to recognize that trans individuals have multifaceted identities beyond their gender. Trans people lead diverse and fulfilling lives.Advocacy: Ben addresses lawmakers, highlighting that anti-trans laws are unpopular and fail to address pressing societal issues. He urges them to consider the broader impact of their actions.Support Networks: Queer and trans youth should find supportive networks and allies to help them navigate challenges and advocate on their behalf.Storytelling: Sharing personal stories is a profound way to foster connection and understanding. Holding space for each other’s truths is essential.Future Projects: Ben is working on a fantasy novel that explores the magic inherent in the trans experience, aiming to put more positive and diverse narratives into the world.Connect with Ben:Instagram: @pseudo.broTikTok: @pseudobroVisit his website: www.bgtranstalks.com Announcements:Queer Story Time Community Facebook Group: Now live and free to join! Connect with our vibrant community here: Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/JCiyGgCnpX7gPbfU/?mibextid=K35XfQueer Story Time Email List: Stay updated with QST episodes, news, events, and future opportunities Email List: http://eepurl.com/iSc-HQLeave A Star Rating, Written Review, & Follow QST:I encourage QST listeners to leave a star rating, and a written review on the podcast platform of your choice and to share the podcast with friends and family! This helps QST expand to an even bigger audience globally.Be sure to follow your host Stevie on Instagram @queertransthriving and the QST YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsV_UVohIXCZkSXExp8aYkA  Support QST & Buy Me A Coffee:If you’d like to support Stevis as your QST host, please consider buying me a coffee at this link and check-out my additional offerings: https://buymeacoffee.com/queertransthriving  Get In-Touch with Stevie via E-Mail: [email protected]: Stevie Inghram, M.S., YT, AWC, NMS-4 (they/them or she/her)Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/queer-story-time-the-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of "Queer Story Time," Stevie interviews Alyy Patel, a queer South Asian gender-fluid individual, about their experiences and perspectives on identity, culture, and spirituality.Key Points Discussed:Navigating Dual Identities:Alyy shares their journey of discovering and embracing both their queerness and South Asian identity, rejecting the idea that they must compromise one for the other.Impact of Colonialism:They discuss how colonialism influenced their family's perspectives on queerness, emphasizing that resistance to queerness in their community often stems from colonial history.Spirituality and Queerness:Alyy finds peace through spirituality, noting that their religion inherently includes queer elements.Queer Community Visibility:Alyy stresses the importance of queer South Asian visibility and encourages others to protect themselves while living authentically, even if it means living a double life.Policy and Lawmakers:Alyy criticizes lawmakers who create anti-queer legislation, urging them to use research and engage with queer communities to make informed decisions.Coming Out Advice for Queer Youth:Alyy advises queer and trans South Asian youth to prioritize safety and financial security, challenging the Western narrative that coming out is necessary for queer validity.Future Aspirations:Alyy hopes to continue advocating for queer South Asian visibility and to speak on larger platforms to share their message.Connect with Alyy:Instagram @alyypatelVisit their website - www.alyypatel.comAnnouncements:Queer Story Time Community Facebook Group: Now live and free to join! Connect with our vibrant community here: Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/JCiyGgCnpX7gPbfU/?mibextid=K35XfQueer Story Time Email List: Stay updated with QST episodes, news, events, and future opportunities Email List: http://eepurl.com/iSc-HQLeave A Review & Follow QST:I encourage QST listeners to leave a review on the podcast platform of your choice and to share the podcast with friends and family! This helps QST expand to an even bigger audience globally.Be sure to follow your host Stevie on Instagram @queertransthriving and the QST YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsV_UVohIXCZkSXExp8aYkA  Support QST & Buy Me A Coffee:If you’d like to support my work as your QST host, please consider buying me a coffee at this link and check-out my additional offerings: https://buymeacoffee.com/queertransthriving  Get In-Touch with Stevie via E-Mail: [email protected]: Stevie Inghram, M.S., YT, AWC, NMS-4 (they/them or she/her)Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/queer-story-time-the-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Episode Description:Join us for the final Pride Month episode of 2024, commemorating the 55th anniversary of the Stonewall Uprising. In this episode, we’ll explore Stonewall and significant moments in global queer and trans history.Episode Highlights:Historical Context:Queer and trans identities have always existed, even if modern terminology did not. Institute of Sexual Research (Early 1900s):Founded by Dr. Magnus Hirschfeld in Berlin, a haven for queer and trans research and clinical care. Nazi Suppression:The destruction of the Institute of Sexual Research by the Nazis in 1933, burning 20,000 books important to queer/trans research & identity. World War II:Queer military personnel found solidarity despite discrimination.Conversion Therapy:Establishment medicine wrongly pathologized homosexuality, leading to harmful conversion practices. Mattachine Society:Early LGBTQ+ rights organization advocating for civil rights and dignity.Stonewall Uprising:Police raids at the Stonewall Inn led to the historic uprising on June 28, 1969.Birth of Pride:The first Pride parade was organized on June 28, 1970, marking the Stonewall anniversary.Global Decriminalization:Many countries decriminalized homosexuality in the 1960s and beyond, with ongoing struggles in Asia.Conclusion: Honoring the contributions of those who fought for LGBTQ+ rights, we celebrate Pride as an ongoing fight for queer & trans equity, equality, and liberation.Announcements:Queer Story Time Community Facebook Group: Now live and free to join! Connect with our vibrant community here: Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/JCiyGgCnpX7gPbfU/?mibextid=K35XfQueer Story Time Email List: Stay updated with QST episodes, news, events, and future opportunities Email List: http://eepurl.com/iSc-HQLeave A Review & Follow QST:I encourage QST listeners to leave a review on the podcast platform of your choice and to share the podcast with friends and family! This helps QST expand to an even bigger audience globally.Be sure to follow your host Stevie on Instagram @queertransthriving and the QST YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsV_UVohIXCZkSXExp8aYkA  Support QST & Buy Me A Coffee:If you’d like to support my work as your QST host, please consider buying me a coffee at this link and check-out my additional offerings: https://buymeacoffee.com/queertransthriving  Get In-Touch with Stevie via E-Mail: [email protected]: Stevie Inghram, M.S., YT, AWC, NMS-4 (they/them or she/her)Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/queer-story-time-the-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy